Katlego Sekhu

Anonymous has been getting weird vibes from her “friend” after she got a position at the company she works for. She is thinking of confronting her friend about this but isn’t sure if it’s the right move.
“A few months ago, I saw a job post at my friend’s workplace. I just told her that I was going to apply, and she just said ‘Okay.’ Fast forward: I was called in for an interview, and I informed her that I was called in, and she just blue-ticked me. I was fortunate that they called me in, and I got the job. Now, whenever she sees me at work, she just acts like she doesn’t know me. I found out that she also applied for the same position. Deep down I want to confront her but I see that there’s a lot that I am missing. Do you guys think I over-shared or maybe I trusted her a lot? I am so confused; please help.
A listener advises Anonymous to confront her friend. “I don’t know the level of the friendship, but I just feel that she needs to approach her and ask her because right now she is sitting there and assuming a whole lot of things that she doesn’t have clarity on. The only one who can offer her clarity is her friend. Not speaking to her is not doing any justice to the friendship,” she counseled.
Another listener doesn’t think Anonymous overshared, but her friend is just “jealous.” He said, “The friend is just jealous and has her own agenda. She just wants to be the only one who succeeds. She must just give the friend the same treatment.”
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