By Katlego Sekhu
Why is it so hard for men to say no to sex? Could it be because men are socialized to believe that they should be ready to do the dance and their masculinity depends on it?
A lot of research findings conclude that sexual fulfillment is a huge priority for men in relationships.
However, A Kaya 959 listener disagrees as she believes men can say no, “men can say no but sometimes, they are afraid of saying it because of societal expectations,” she explains.
Responses on social media
“It used to bother me when he said no”
“My current partner does say no if he’s not in the mood or sick or had a long day, he would rather cuddle instead. It used to bother me but now I’m fine with it,” a listener shares on Twitter.
“Women have double standards when it comes to sex”
Some men believe that women have double standards when it comes to sex – they feel women can say no when they are not in the mood while men can’t.
“It depends on your partner”
“It depends on the type of partner you have,” shares a listener. “Some partners can make one feel less of a man if they’re not in the mood while others make them question their manhood.”
“Some women base attraction on sex”
A listener on social media believes some women base attraction on sex. They believe that if a man refuses to have sex with you then he is not into you.
“Feeling guilty for saying no”
A listener reveals that men can say no, but some women know how to guilt-trip men into conceding to sex.
Three TSpoons on why he will say no to sex:
[3TSpoons] On Why He Will Say No To Sex:
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) February 2, 2022
🥄 Because You Did Your Thing
🥄 He Is Not That Into You
🥄 He Is Tired#CanMenSayNoToSex pic.twitter.com/MgorjSFVN8
Also Read: How to increase your libido in a healthy way
